What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms I said all of this in a more complicated ways, but that is the bottom end of it. The plan is to go out together and find me a boyfriend. He agreed to see me again, but next time with his boyfriend. more often and also hope that he does not stick to his idea that we should not have sex to make sure we don t become lovers.
That actually felt good and i was really proud of the fact that N. My butt still hurt a little bit from the first time. We had more oral sex and lovemaking, but no more anal. joked that once I had a proper boyfriend, we could fuck again. at first refused, but later agreed, saying he would find me a boyfriend later. He offered to help me hook up with someone that night, but I felt a bit shy about that. I have to say I was pretty moved by this, it was not just the alcohol and the dope. feared that we would become lovers and he did not want this to happen. Yes, it is an open relationship, but if we met up this way often, N. told me that I have to understand that he would not be willing to hook up with me that often. I felt that we were developing a good friendship. and I discussed our relationship on this night out as we were getting drunk together and smoking dope. The music was not to my taste, I have to say. What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we had sex, we chatted and smoked weed together. How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Veryĭid you have an orgasm? Yes, more than oneĭid your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple He licked my butthole again which is a practice I am quite sure I don t want to do myself but I quite enjoyed N. helped me a bit by fondling and kissing my penis and testicles. It made me feel that now I have truly had sex with a man. I still enjoyed the intercourse during which we kissed at times. N.s penis is long and skinny but it still hurt more than I had hoped for. He mounted me missionary style and told me how I should put my legs so it did not hurt that much. I was impressed that he did not lose his erection during that process. put a condom on, used a lot of lube, licked my anus, stuck a finger inside to put more lube in. I had fantasized about it and now I wanted to experience it. that I was ready to be anally penetrated. We touched, kissed, rubbed our penises against each other, and mutually gave blowjobs. I was quite impressed that I had provoked such physical reaction in him. N’s penis was very stiff right from the start. We went to the bedroom straight away and got undressed. What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I got to N’s apartment, we greeted each other with an intimate kiss as if we were true lovers. I then called my girlfriend and made up some story that a rock band she is not interested in would play I would go to the gig without her. I immediately messaged back that I was up for it. That was so easy that I could not resist. asking whether I felt like visiting him that evening! His boyfriend was away and he wanted to hook up with me. Last Friday I got horny and checked again. Via this site, I had also chatted a bit more with N., but we did not meet up.
So I kept on browsing the gay dating site that had put me in contact with N., but I didn’t meet up with anyone. On the other hand, I am scared of the social consequences it would have to declare myself gay. I still have sex with her regularly, but I seriously wonder how much I enjoy it when I am honest with myself.
My problems of getting aroused by my girlfriend got worse. How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After my introduction to sex between men I was very conflicted. I had met him a while ago and he had introduced me to gay sex (see previous story). He has long hair and looks a bit feminine. What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? N. How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status How long ago did this hookup happen? Last Weekend